Funny holidays - Don't Care Day

Perfectionists strive to be flawless and perfect in everything The high pace of modern life and the pursuit of luck exhaust both those who want to be perfect like Mary Poppins and ordinary people As a result of this, emotional burnout sets in, fatigue and indifference sets in, which in everyday life is called indifference But there are people for whom indifference and indifference to everything that happens around them is the norm Psychologists see this not as a feature of the worldview, but as a significant change in the personality of a person who has deep internal traumas Neglect of the interests of other people, emotional coldness and detachment do not exclude the pursuit of one’s own goals An unusual holiday has been established in honor of the adherents of this life philosophy May 28th is National Don't Care Day Lack of reaction to manifestations of the external environment and complete indifference towards others are signs of severe depression and the development of mental illness Apato-abulic syndrome with pronounced emotional-volitional impoverishment is a manifestation of negative symptoms, and is often caused by schizophrenia Therefore, not giving a fuck only at first glance seems like an insignificant deviation from the norms of behavior Upon closer examination, this feature of the psyche indicates the presence of problems both in the one who demonstrates a disregard for people and in those around him Sometimes people who don't give a damn behave indifferently and indifferently in order to hurt others and thereby cause trouble Similar behavior occurs in psychopaths and narcissists - people with personality disorders that are observed in manipulators, emotional vampires, self-centered people and abusers A disregard for the interests of others is one of the sophisticated forms of self-affirmation and psychological sadism, which cannot be encouraged, perceived as the norm of behavior However, there is also a healthy indifference that helps not to create unnecessary meanings and not to attach great significance to events that are not important and significant This approach gives the opportunity for freedom of choice in behavior, reactions and decision-making, avoids unnecessary suffering and maintains the health of the nervous system If everything that happens in life is taken to heart, a person will experience emotional exhaustion The pop group "Yin-Yang" has a song in the chorus of which the words sound: “I just don’t care about everything, What’s in front, what’s in profile” Hyper-responsible people living under the yoke of problems should learn to experience such ease, some of them which can be placed on the shoulders of others Learn to periodically turn on the protective mechanism of the nervous system, ie to control strong emotional stress and save mental reserves, calls on everyone to give a damn