Kiss and Make up Day

The conflict between loved ones psychologically traumatizes each of the participants to one degree or another Unresolvable contradictions and quarrels between parents and children, spouses, and friends cause pain in their hearts All methods are good for using and cooling hot heads, including hugs and kisses Tactile contact, including touching with lips, can reduce the intensity of passions and take relationships to a new level In honor of one of the forms of sincere expression of feelings, an unusual holiday was established - “Let's Kiss and Make Up” Day The fun Kiss and Make Up Day encourages people to remember one of the most popular ways to show affection, friendliness and love The holiday was invented by a certain Jacqueline Milton, who believes that with the help of a kiss you can get rid of a grudge against a partner and maintain close relationships Rajiv Gandhi argued that only a strong person can forgive another, a weak person never Therefore, August 25 is the ideal day to bury the hatchet and show your best sides of character: nobility and generosity With the help of kisses, people not only express their affection, sympathy and stronger feelings The famous tradition of drinking at Brudershaft is a ritual that allows you to move to a new level of intimacy in a relationship by starting to address each other as “you” It is no coincidence that simultaneous drinking of alcohol with crossed arms ends with a kiss - it is a symbol of the good intentions of all participants sitting at the table Guests at a wedding traditionally often shout “Bitter!” to the newlyweds The bride and groom respond to this call by kissing, just as they did after they were declared husband and wife at the registry office In this way, they seal their vows to each other to be together through thick and thin and demonstrate to guests and relatives the seriousness of their intentions A kiss after reconciliation is also used for this purpose - it, like a seal, confirms the decision of the participants in the quarrel to forget about it and forgive the insults The poetess Olga Kamarinskaya discusses this in her poems: Kiss and Make Up Day reminds us of the importance of a truce and encourages us to remember “things of days gone by” History knows a lot of examples of resolving major conflicts in which thousands of people were involved with the help of kisses One of them is the war for the English crown of Lancaster and York in 1455-1485 Representatives of the two branches of the feudal nobility were distant relatives, because belonged to the Plantagenet dynasty The armed conflict, which went down in history as the War of the Roses, ended with the reconciliation of the parties in the form of a kiss: Henry IV Tudor from the Lancaster dynasty married Elizabeth of York A team of psychologists from the University of Texas, working under the leadership of Professor Karen Prager, came to the conclusion that in resolving a conflict, the behavior of the participants is very important, both at the stage of clarifying the relationship and after reaching an agreement Kisses and other expressions of love contributed to the rapid emotional recovery of 115 couples of respondents living together Touching with lips, apologies and mutual forgiveness are the most optimal type of post-conflict behavior for partners, according to psychologists' observations If you haven't tried these stress-relieving tactics in your relationship yet, the best time to do so is on Kiss and Make Up Day